Parents Can Be Educators

Around the same time that most kids are packingclassroom alone has to offer. They need to be
up their pencil boxes and heading for homeroom,around people of different ages, races, religions
a growing group of the families are preparing forand backgrounds.
a year of learning at home.The real world doesn't look like a classroom. I've
When I was a kid, home schooling was definitelynever worked in an office where I experienced
counter-culture, and sometimes even illegal. Butthe kind of bullying, peer pressure and teasing
today, a growing number of parents are opting tothat I saw in middle school, either.
educate their own children with varying reasons.Today, home-schooled kids can find a club or
Some do it for reasons of faith or to hold to aclass for just about anything they're interested in,
certain philosophy. Other parents aren't happyfrom science workshops through Impression 5
with their local school district or have children withScience Center to physical education at the
learning difficulties who do better with one-on-oneYMCA.
attention. Still others simply prefer theOlder kids can take advanced level science or
individualized learning their kids can do at homemath classes or college courses. As far as sports
with the teachers who know them best: Mom andand other extracurriculars go, there are club
Dad.teams and community arts organizations. True, if
Though my sons go to school, weyour child is headed for the NFL, playing on a high
home-educated the year before last. We blendedschool team might be a key part of his life plan.
books and other resources with packagedBut let's face it: most kids have very little chance
curriculum and did the standards: reading, writingof becoming professional athletes. And
and arithmetic. The boys took art classes, playedhomeschooled kids can and do go to college, even
basketball and learned about DNA.Ivy League schools.
Far from being bored at home without enough toPsychology and child-development courses are
occupy our time, we found a steady stream ofuseful if you have to manage an entire classroom
workshops and other activities where we couldfull of kids. But a parent doesn't need a degree to
get together with other local home-schoolers. Andknow how her own child learns best, how to tap
it was a great chance to realize just how manyinto his passions, what makes him tick. Teachers
opportunities for education and enrichment theredon't have to know everything to be effective,
are in community for home-schoolers andbut they do have to know where to get the
non-home-schoolers.information and be committed to helping the child
Though home schooling is becoming morelearn it. Most home schooling parents I know are
mainstream, home-schooled parents and kids stillpassionate about helping their kids learn.
face predictable, but often misinformed,I appreciate the hard work educators do every
disapproval. When I told people of our plans today teaching my children and the majority of kids,
home-school, we got all kinds of unsolicitedand think they deserve a round of applause. But I
criticism.also think home schooling parents deserve a
What About Socialization?round of applause, not only for taking on the
This is an often asked question. I'm not sureawesome responsibility of educating their children,
where we got the idea that putting 20 to 30 kidsbut also the courage to hold on to that
in a classroom together is the best or only waycommitment in spite of nay sayers.
to learn about normal socializing.I hope that home schooling will continue to be
Think about it: when was the last time that youbetter understood and more accepted, locally and
spent the majority of your waking hours withnationally. In the meantime, I hope all the
two dozen people the same age as you? Thehomeschoolers are having a great year so far,
reality is that in order to be prepared for lifeand I hope to bump into you some of you in your
beyond school, all kids need more than what aclassroom, the world.